A few years ago I graduated from Seton Hall University. As this was one of the most emotional and happiest days of my life I have taken some time to reflect on my journey and get my thoughts down on paper. Many people told me that my road towards a good education was going to be rough. The word “impossible” was a word that I learned very early on in regards to people’s opinions about whether or not I could get to college let alone graduate from college. Now I just have to say…
To the physician who told me when I was 6 that I would be lucky to get to high school, this one’s for you.
For the Special Education teachers who would look down at me like I was broken, this one’s for you.
For the years of being taunted and bullied by kids, saying I can’t and wouldn’t achieve greatness, this one’s for you.
For the people who helped me through physical therapy, occupational therapy and speech therapy till I was 14, this one’s for you.
For my parents, friends and relatives, who see me as an individual first who is/was never broken, this one’s for you.
For those teachers who said I could do it, this one’s for you.
For the countless other individuals out there who are autistic or love someone who is autistic, this one’s for you.
For the people who say you can’t do something even though you can this one’s for you.
For the people who have given me the chance to express my “voice” and help others, this one’s for you.
At the end of the day our influences in our lives send us on our path, either good or bad. When I was 4 I was diagnosed on the spectrum. Now 27 years later I’m a college graduate who also received a Masters Degree and just recently graduated to become a Doctor from New Jersey City University. For all those people, again, the good and the bad, thank you. You’ve made me who I am today and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
…This one’s for you.
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